The wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as asults, to our grudge... - Adam Phillips Quotes
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Quote:The wish to be understood may be our most vengeful demand, may be the way we hang on, as asults, to our grudge against our mothers; the way we never let our mothers off the hook for their not meeting our every need. Wanting to be understood, as adults, can be our most violent form of nostalgia. - Adam Phillips Quotes


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